My husband

November 23, 2008 at 9:56 pm (1)

I have come to realize that I tend to only talk about him when I am venting about something I am angry with him about.  I feel so bad that I have lead good friends and family to believe that he is a nasty person.  When I realized what I was doing I tried to explain to a friend of mine that hubby is not evil but really a great person.  I explained how just sometimes I need to vent and that we are rarely angry for more than 15 minutes at a time but it seems that my venting has done lots of harm.  I don’t complain to everyone and now I wont to anyone, after all we get over our fits very quickly, but it hurts me how others now see hubby as a bad guy.

Hubby always is there for me when I need help because of my bipolar, he happily deals with my animal obsession.  He wants a child as much as I do, he is never anything but in love with me.  I feel safe and secure with him and any decisions he makes.  I really am a very lucky girl, I got married at 18 years old and have been married for 15 years now.  I want the world to know how special he is.

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